Gold & Grit
Capturing the Fire that Created the Gold

For the baddies who are standing inside of their world and want it all
GOLD & GRIT is a 4-day photoshoot retreat experience

July 9–12 
in Grass Valley, CA

A small, beautiful room of humans who get it,
the desire to be seen and to have something real captured but have only experienced the ackwardness of holding your breath & feeling like you're in high school every time you smile for the camera

This retreat is not only photos and video content… but presence, an experience that brings out your natural state and captures it in it's golden moment

This is for the badass who knows she's a queen and wants those killer, sexy AF, oh sh*t who's that in that photo moment too!

THIS IS A TWO-FOR...
One half will be your raw queen self 
maybe she leads a corporate business … maybe she performs… but is absolutely building her own thing, a new brand and wants imagery that reflects all of her in her natural queen look

And the other half is full glam 
a little naughty and maybe she wants boudoir shots.... maybe she wants a pinup look with a moped... or maybe wants to only wear an apron in the kitchen... but is 100% swimming in the deep end of what she claims as glamorous to her & her alone!

This Retreat is the best way to capture the gold inside you as your everyday queen self & the flip side of the coin sassy self all in one. 

Are you ready to spend the best weekend of your life making new friends, getting the most amazing photos & content ever, and learn the art of feeling like a boss in front of the camera? 


What Is This....
It’s a small, intentional circle of six. It begins with the beautiful unfiltered truth of who you are and evolves into a curated explosion of your own photoshoot power. 

Whether it’s the high-fashion edge of Editorial or the liberation of Burlesque, you are invited to express yourself without apology. You aren't just "getting photos taken" you are being guided and witnessed in your most authentic form.

6 People. 1 Weekend. Total Expression.
It starts raw, a photoshoot where you're in your natural radiance. Then, we build. Full Glam. Branded. Burlesque. Boudoir. Editorial. The world is your oyster.

This is more than a shoot; it’s a space to be seen. AND get photos for business as well as personal.  You’ll leave with:
  • 15 high-end Professional Images (from one Photographer)
  • 10 more high-end Professional Images (from another Photographer)
  • A hybrid of personal branding and luxury editorial
  • Candid BTS moments & footage
  • Performance/Posing classes & training
  • A new internal compass for your own excellence

Come for the photos. Stay for the moments that surprise you. Leave with a raw beauty that doesn't wash off.
This is the most potent way to experience a photoshoot
Your path to excellence begins here. 
Say yes to a weekend designed for confidence and fulfillment. With only 6 spots available, this is an exclusive opportunity to invest in your vision. 

This photoshoot retreat, Gold & Grit, is not just another retreat, it is set with every single detail taken care of by myself and my team of extraordinary humans who travelled to Grass Valley California to hold these days with me (and you) and create the incredible, beautiful gift of a weekend gathering together. 

We’ll capture ourselves getting ready together, setting intentions together, stepping into the energy of what we were about to create together. And so much more!

And at the end of it, you’ll have had the most potent personal experience with a tribe of profound humans that will be your new best friends
Frequently Asked Questions
Embarking on a weekend adventure often brings questions, and I'm here to provide clarity before we begin our experience together. Below you'll find answers to the questions clients frequently ask about my approach, what to expect from our sessions, and how this whole process unfolds.
  • What exactly will I walk away with?
    You’ll leave with:

    — 2 professional photoshoots
    — 15 professionally edited images from James Blonde
    — 5 professionally edited images & 1 printed image from Deja Moo
    — Personal branding + luxury editorial shots (burlesque or not)
    — Behind-the-scenes content for social + business
    — Photo posing tips + guidance
    — Performance training + stage presence refinement
    — A one-of-a-kind experience
    — A Pre & Post-retreat integration call
    — Cybil Unrest & Teams full presence guiding you through it
    — And something harder to name… but impossible to forget

    Most women come for the photos.
    They leave with a version of themselves they didn’t know was available.
  • What makes this different from other boudoir/business photos?
    Unlike traditional "in-and-out" sessions that rely on heavy costumes and posing, we focus on offering a deeper, personalized experience meant to change your presence and how you view yourself, not just a set of surface-level photos.

    We work with you to create a safe, supportive, and comfortable environment, rather than putting you on display.

    That’s why your photos hit different.
    That’s why your presence changes.
    That’s why this stays with you long after the weekend.

    This is designed as a lasting, empowering, and often healing experience, with the goal that the confidence you feel stays with you long after the weekend.

    Also, this is a true 2-for-1 experience:

    ✔ Professional branding + business-ready images
    ✔ Full glam, burlesque, editorial shots (these don't have to be burlesque if that's not YOU)

    Whether you’re a performer, coach, entrepreneur, or all of the above…
    you leave with assets that support every version of you.

    Plus:
    You’re not just attending a retreat.
    You’re stepping into a sisterhood container that sees you, challenges you, and elevates you.
    We take the time to learn your story and what makes you feel comfortable, ensuring your unique beauty is celebrated.
  • What is the flow of the weekend?
    We move intentionally. This is a full experience.

    1 Week Before
    → Group Zoom call to connect, prepare, and set intentions

    Thursday (Arrival Day)
    → Welcome dinner
    → Rhinestone party + connection time

    Friday (Transformation Day)
    → Full-day photoshoot
    → Start with raw (simply you, no costume)
    → Transition into full glam photos at the studio
    → Dinner + digest

    Saturday (Embodiment + Integration)
    → Workshops (performance + presence)
    → Spa + relaxation experience

    Sunday (Closing)
    → Breakfast + departure

    3 Weeks After
    → Glam Zoom reunion + “glitter crash” integration call
  • I’m not a burlesque performer—can I still come?
    Yes.

    This is for:

    Women ready to be seen in a new way
    Women who want awesome shots for their business
    Women who feel called to the art form of photos
    Burlesque performers ready to level up their portfolio

    You don’t need experience.
    You simply need willingness to show up for yourself on a weekend adventure.
  • I feel nervous about the
    Yes. Completely.

    That’s "the point". But honestly you can wear makeup, if you're a queen that loves that please do that. It's the catch you your wild moment, and if you wear makeup on the regular we want that in the photos. We want the "raw" you.

    You’re not thrown into it alone, you’re guided, supported, and witnessed.

    And for most women?

    That ends up being the most powerful part of the entire weekend.
  • Who is the photographer?
    You’ll work with the same professional photographers for both shoots. James Blonde Photography & Deja Moo Photography. And you meet them on the Zoom prior to the weekend

    This matters. You get to say what you want and know what you're getting.

    It creates:

    Consistency
    Comfort
    Trust

    So your raw and glam images feel like two expressions of the same woman, not two different experiences.
  • Where do the photoshoots take place?
    Grass Valley/Nevada City California
    Raw Shoot:
    → At the house (private, safe, grounded environment)

    Auburn California (25 min from Grass Valley)
    Glam Shoot:
    → At Flaunt Studios for a full editorial, high-energy experience
  • Is hair and makeup included?
    Professional hair + makeup is available as an add-on option.

    You can:

    Come fully ready
    Or be professionally styled for your glam shoot

    We’ll guide you either way so you feel aligned with your vision.
  • Will I get content for my business?
    Yes, and this is a huge part of the value.

    You’ll receive:

    Personal branding images
    Behind-the-scenes content
    Professional visuals you can use across platforms

    This is for:
    ✔ Coaches
    ✔ Entrepreneurs
    ✔ Performers
    ✔ Multi-passionate women

    You’re not just getting “sexy photos.”
    In fact you don't have take 1 single sext photo unless you feel called to do that.
    You’re getting usable assets.
  • Will there be opportunities to perform?
    Yes.

    We host a low-pressure, in-house "showcase" & a Burlesque class.

    This is your chance to:

    Practice presence
    Be witnessed
    Step into your power in a safe space

    No pressure. No perfection required.
    (everything is optional, this is a retreat & choose your own adventure)
  • What kind of women attend this retreat?
    Women who are:

    Open to being seen and supported
    Craving depth, not surface-level experiences
    Ready to stop hiding behind perfection
    Serious about their growth and/or craft

    This is not just a casual girls’ trip.
    Gold & Grit is the warm, the real, and a little bit raw, weekend experience you’ll really have fun being a part of.
  • How many spots are available?
    Only 8 women per cohort.

    This keeps the experience:

    Intimate
    High-touch
    Deeply transformational
  • Is this retreat refundable?
    Due to the intimate and curated nature of this experience, all deposits are non-refundable.

    If something unexpected happens, we’ll do our best to transfer your spot to a future cohort. And all deposits can be transferred to a future experience with Cybil Unrest.
  • I feel the pull… but I’m scared.
    Good. And completely understandable.

    That usually means something real is here for you.

    This isn’t about being ready.

    Photography is rarely about being 'ready.' It’s a brave surrender to the moment, a shared, sacred space where sisterhood turns vulnerability into art.
  • How do I know if this is for me?
    If your body is giving you a 'yes' before your brain can find an excuse…

    If something in you is both excited and slightly terrified…

    If you know you’re ready for more, but can’t quite name what that is yet…

    If you’re caught between the 'hell yes' and the 'how'…

    This is for you.
Gold & Grit
Capturing the Fire that Created the Gold

4-day retreat  
July 9–12
in Grass Valley, CA 
I’ve created something rare and special for this summer. This is a one-of-a-kind private muse experience. 
Not for everyone.
Not a girls’ weekend.
Not a class.
You don’t arrive the same way you leave.

You cross a threshold…
a river in, an ocean out.
Hungry.
Seen.
And the world feels magical when you step back into it.

raw glam
gold + skin
rhinestones, velvet, quiet luxury
high frequency, real presence

All my best, Cybil Unrest

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